When 'Love' becomes 'Slavery'.

Once upon a time, there was a bird. He was adorned with two perfect wings and with glossy, colourful, marvellous feathers. In short, he was a creature made to fly about freely in the sky, bringing joy to everyone who saw him.

One day, a women saw this bird and fell in love with him. She watched his fligh, her mouth wide in amazement, her heart pounding, her eyes shining, and the two travelled accross the sky in perfect harmony. She admired and venerated and celebrated that bird.

But then she thought: He might want to visit far-off mountains! And she was afraid,afraid that she would never feel the same way about any other bird. And she felt envy, envy for the bird's ability to fly.

And she felt 'alone'.

Ans she thought:'I am going to set a trap. The next time the bird appears, he willl never leave again'

The bird, who was also in love, returned the fillowing day ,fell into the trap and was put in a cage.

She looked at the bird evry day. There he was, the object of her passion, and she showed him to her friends, who said: 'Now you hav evrything you could possibly want'. 'However ,a strange transformation began to take place: now that she had the bird and no longer needed to woo him, she began to lose intrest. The bird, unable to fly and express the true meaning of his life, began to waste away and his feathers to lose thier gloss; he grew ugly;and the women no longer paid him any attention,except by feeding him and cleaning out his cage.

One day, the bird died. The woman felt terribly sad and spent all her time thinking about him. But she did not remember the cage,she thought only of the day when she had seen him for the first time,flying contentedly amongst the clouds.

If she had looked more deeply into herself,she would have realised that what had thrilled her about the bird was his 'freedom', the energy of his wings in motion,not his physical body.

Without the bird, her life too lost all meanings, and Death came knocking at her door.'Why have you come?' she asked Death.'So that you can fly once more with him accross the sky',Death replied. 'If you had allowed him to come and go, you would hav loved and admired him even more;alas,you now need me in order to find him again'...

[From the book "11 minutes" by Sir.Paulo Coelho]